Overcome Approach Anxiety And Get Laid Tonight!

It doesn't matter if you're As Thin As A Toothpick Or As Buff As A Wrestler…


Approach anxiety will be the biggest roadblock to your dating success, and to get laid tonight! Psychologically, though, approach anxiety can overpower even the toughest guys out there. The reason of course is that it is so closely tied up with inner game issues like: self-esteem, breaking free of societal programming… and all the deep fundamental stuff that makes meeting women truly an “elevated” art form.


So, If you can address and overcome your approach anxiety, then it’s fair to say that you will have truly evolved as a human being, Control the beast that controls you, even more so than if say you improved your tennis swing or even made a million bucks. So let’s get right down to business.


If You Want To Conquer Approach Anxiety You Must...

Understand approach anxiety.


The first thing to understand is that approach anxiety is normal. It’s supposed to be there, or else guys would be scoring left and right, and we wouldn’t even be here. So don’t ever beat yourself up for feeling approach anxiety. It is just like feeling bad for having only two legs and not being able to fly.


I truly believe that every problem that falls on our lap is a GIFT.


The reason is simple, we become aware of the problem and we can quickly work towards eliminating that problem. The right way to look at it is that it’s a problem with a solution, and just like solving any other problem, we need to use our brains, and arm ourselves with the right tools. Second, understand the situations in which you feel the most approach anxiety, and the situations in which you don’t feel as much. Then, to get the ball rolling, try recreating the scenarios where you don’t feel as much anxiety.


If you can understand your problem then you can come up with solutions that will solve your problem.


For example, maybe you think that opening by asking for directions is easier to swallow than complimenting a girl right off the bat. Good, then go do it. Eventually you will become comfortable enough to try giving women a sincere compliment. Simple. No excuses.


The point is to do something, anything, to solve the problem, rather than sit there and marvel at how difficult it is. By merely taking action, you end up opening up all kinds of vistas for yourself, and the solution will often surface with a momentum of its own.


On the flip side, the more stagnant you remain The more stagnant you become.
Third, it will help to keep the correct frame in mind, even though you may not yet feel it in your core 100%.


The Shift In Thinking That Will Shift Your Results


The correct frame of mind you should have, when approaching women, is that you are doing this world a favor by developing yourself into a real man. One who doesn’t let societal B.S. rule him like it does every other guy out there. You may think that, since you’re only a beginner, that you could not possibly adopt such a frame of mind.

But, you may be surprised to know that there are probably more frustrated girls out there than frustrated guys, and that just by approaching one of these girls, even with bad technique, you are most likely brightening up her day.


Women want you to succeed at meeting them and picking them up!


In other words, just the fact that you’re reading this letter, and wanting to improve yourself, sets you apart from all the frustrated men out there who are ashamed or afraid to admit what they really want. This means you have every right to enter an interaction feeling like a giver rather than a taker.


So, does approach anxiety ever go away completely? Probably not. But that’s not the point. The point is to get off your couch and go do something.


Advanced Strategies For Dealing With Approach Anxiety I've been getting dozens of e-mails a day with the same question. "Oliver, What are other ways to get over approach anxiety?" Since approach anxiety is a problem for many guys, today I will share with you another Approach Anxiety-buster I have developed over the years. First off, why do we feel approach anxiety? I know that at least for me, when I first started, I definitely had a fear of the unknown. Since I did not know what to say, how to act, whether she would like me, etc., I always felt like I would be plunging down a dark abyss every time before an approach.


Many times, that feeling got to me, and it prevented me from approaching women or even going out.
The only thing you should fear is fear itself.


Srprising thing is, even after I did quite a few approaches, and experienced positive reactions from the VAST majority of the women I approached (the usual case when you have the guts to open your mouth and just say something), I STILL felt massive approach anxiety.


How could this be? Wasn't it supposed to just go away, or at least diminish steadily, the more positive feedback I got?


I finally realized that what I was afraid of was NOT how the WOMEN would react to me, but rather of ME not knowing what to do next.


The fear that you have no control, and are at the mercy of a more powerful force than you, is enough to overpower most guys, even the most handsome, the richest, and those with the best education.


This prevents such guys from approaching, even though most women would die to have a chance to talk to them.


For the longest time, I didn't know how to deal with this. Until I read a book about Donald Trump and several other successful people.


What I learned was something so simple. Yet I never really thought of using it before. So after testing this new idea for a couple of weeks, which I recommend you do, I developed a new tool to take back control in an interaction. It's called… Pre Arranging Your Success Here's how it goes.


Knowing what to do will dramatically increase your chances of being successful with women.


Bfore going out of the house to approach women, you should have these things prepared. Your Venue- Where would you go to meet women during the daytime?


I personally love going to coffee shops and bookstores to meet women. I tend to find women that are educated and classy in these places.


I encourage you to have some standards. Do not just go for any hot woman that you see. Know exactly what you are looking for and be prepared when you find her.


Her Number- How do you plan to get her number?


Next time you are talking to a woman, don’t just get her number because she’s hot. Make sure that she actually fits in your standards.


If she does, tell her that you enjoy her company and you’d love to see her again for coffee or a fun activity.


It’s that simple. Your Instant Date- Where do you take her when you instantly “hit it off”? Let’s say you meet a fantastic woman that’s ubberly cute and funny, what do you do next? Just get her number? Nope, take her on a date right there. Tell her that you’re hungry and you’re craving for some dessert. Then allow her to come join you because it’s going to be fun.


If you know what you are looking for then you will have a better chance finding it.


Your Second Date Fun Activity-What do you have planned for your second date with her? How will you tell her? I recommend that you already have a plan for a killer second date even before you leave the house. You really should.


This will help you become more confident because you’re prepared .
What I have found is that most guys go into an interaction and just sort of "wing" it to see what happens.
By knowing exactly what you are going to do, you increase your chances of getting it.
The point is, by asking for these things every time, YOU are in control of how the interaction is going to play out.
THIS ADVANCED TIP WILL DECREASE your approach anxiety.


I repeat: KNOWING WHAT TO DO WILL DECREASE YOUR APPROACH ANXIETY. So stop jumping into a black hole every time you approach - you will only develop ulcers and cancer from repeating that repeatedly. Know how you are going to end it, and nothing can overpower you. I guarantee you, if you start pre-arranging your success, the results will be better than you expect.


Having a plan increases your confidence and lessens the chances of failing.


Where to Go From Here Congratulations! You are now well on your way to becoming more successful with women and dating. You have the tools to become more confident, banish approach anxiety, and better your best! You alone will decide how quickly you will take action to put these powerful strategies in place for your dating life I want you to read this report several times to really let the material sink in. After reading this, go out and follow the action plan at the end of this free report. Here are some resources that will triple your success with women and help you live the dating lifestyle you have always dreamed about…FAST!

Step 1: Read the dating tips that I send you twice a week. It’s jam packed with dozens of tested tips and strategies for meeting women during the daytime. I’ll only be sending you actionable tips that you can use to meet women instantly.

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