Don’t Be Afraid to Think Outside the Box

One of the advantages you have as a nice guy is that you take a sincere interest in the women you date (right?). Most nice guys spend more time planning to make a date nice, and taking the time to find out what this woman is all about.

Many bad boys and arrogant men (the kind that women eventually learn to really dislike a lot) rely on the same stale routines for all of their dates. They go to the same places, and do the same things, seldom taking the time to be really interested in the individual they’re dating and what she might enjoy.

This doesn’t mean that you have to put your interests and preferences on hold. What it means is that you need to figure out things to do that you’ll both enjoy and that will give you a chance to get to know each other in a comfortable setting.

You don’t have to worry about impressing her with the amount of money you spend on the date or taking her to a club that only celebrities and socialites can get into. You need to impress her by being interesting, fun, a good listener and sincerely concerned with finding out who she is and what she’s all about.

So, it’s very important to think outside the box when planning dates. If you’ve been paying attention to what she says she likes, you can surprise her now and then with an adventure or tickets to a show she’s been dying to see.

The movie and dinner scene can get boring and she might begin to resent the same old, same old. It’s up to you to keep things interesting and fun. Other things you can do to be creative and gain her top spot for best date could be:

Keep your dating routine anything but routine and you’ll find that she looks forward to each date with you – wondering what will be next. Don’t forget to ask her what she’s interested in doing for dates, and enjoy dating outside the box!

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Dr. Molly Goodman is founder of the Goodman Institute For Better Sex.
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